I ran for the door and
grabbed my keys. My husband jumped up and asked me where I was
going. I yelled, "I am leaving, I
have to leave!". I could hear my children crying and their daddy
asking, "What did y’all do?"
I got in the car as quickly as
possible, I honestly didn’t know where to go. I knew I couldn’t stay in
the “quarantine house” one more moment. I had to find somewhere to
breathe, cry, scream... Be anywhere but
isolation with my family. As I was driving to nowhere, guilt crept over
me like a cloudy day blanketing the sun. The tears began to flow… I
thought to myself, How could I have just left? What is wrong with me? Why can’t I teach them like I have done for
hundreds of students? Isn’t this
what you had longed for in the past? To
home school and stay at home with your own children? Have you not begged God to
not let your babies think you have loved other children more than them? I am an educator, an assistant principal, a
teacher at heart, how come I could not discipline or teach my own
kids?
Easter was coming. It has always been precious to me - my ultimate favorite time. Spring time reminds me of renewal, sweet smells, beauty and the reminder of eternal life. In the last few years it has meant even more to me because three years ago, I held my grandmother’s hand and prayed over her for the last time before she went home to Jesus.
One day my sweet friend
was sharing about her children’s adorable Easter baskets. I realized I
had not got my children anything, no baskets, no eggs, no dress, no candy, I
mean nothing. How I longed for our traditional hunt, an Easter dress for
my daughter, and to hear my Mawmaw’s voice. I dug out old Easter baskets,
bought candy, my sweet husband ordered online Easter presents and my mom
surprised me with Easter clothes for the kids. It was all fine, but why did it
not feel fine?
Once again, I found myself crying the ole’ ugly cry - this time I went into my closet. Again, the guilt of this is so silly…God forgive me I know this is not what Easter is about. It’s about you! Oh Father, please forgive my silliness! As I was crying out, the Holy Spirit whispered, "My sweet child, I see you… I hear you… nothing is silly to me… Grief is grief… grieve sweet girl… In that moment I felt His presence wrap me and gently remind me HE sees me, hears the cries of my HEART… In quarantine, isolation, in the church parking lot, in my school office, in my closet, wherever I am.
“O Lord, you have
searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you
perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you
are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue, you know
completely, O Lord.” (Psalm 139: 1-4)
How these words have spoken to the depths of my soul.
Blessed sisters, wherever you are in your journey, HE sees you! He sees your secret fears, the tears you shed over your babies. The breakdowns over home school. The laughter and joyful moments. He sees the introverts who love this time and the extroverts who wave like crazy at the mailman. He sees the grief, whatever it may be, and even things we think are silly. There is NOTHING we cannot take to the cross.
Take comfort and joy in Daddy God, who is surrounding us with HIS love and knowing our hearts.
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